Going Home, Part 1
Patti Conklin • July 24, 2018
Memories, ,Loss, Laughter, and Love
I’d like to share with you some of my feelings and would truly love to hear yours. Through each other, I believe we can all find our way home, whether we know where it is or not. While this may seem sad as I start, it’s pivotal in my life right now, creating the beginning of 4 years of questions. So, please, breathe with me and read my words, words I’m struggling to write. You know me worldwide as a professional woman, and I’m very proud of the work I’ve done. I’ve had the privilege of helping so many people around the world, but we all have challenges, and these are mine.
These are some of my personal challenges that I’ve sat with, thought about, and lived with. Stick with me as I work my way through sharing this with you, for as we share, we understand, as we understand, we grow, as we grow, we blossom. And maybe one day, my blossoms and your blossoms come together as one massive beautiful flower.
Dad
The call came early morning. Dad had passed, 4 years after my mother. My brother’s voice was calm, down to business. We all knew it was coming, we just didn’t know when.
I insisted we have a memorial service for him the following week. My brother laughed and said, “In January, in Brooktondale? Are you out of your mind?”
I chuckled. “Out of my mind? Always debatable,” I laughed with him.
“We’ll bury him in the spring with Mom but have a service now,” David pushed.
I insisted. “Memorials should be done at the time of death, not 6 months later.”
David told me to do whatever it was I wanted and to let him know. After contacting friends of my parents to help put together a memorial service for him. I sat down to make my flight and rent a car, realizing I’d need to upgrade to a 4-wheel drive because, of course, a snow storm was coming, and indeed it did.
A few hours later, another call came in from my dear friend, informing me that her husband was being checked into the ICU. I told her I’d be there in a few hours to be with them.
David
As I sat with my dearest friend David, listening to the doctors, watching the nurses come in and out of the room we finally had a quiet moment. He looked into my eyes and said: “What’s up?”
“My dad died this morning. I need to go home to for a memorial service for him..” with tears in his eyes he vehemently tore off his breathing mask and yelled, “ THAT place is NOT your home! THIS IS YOUR HOME.” He said it with the same strength that he has for 20 years everytime I said “home”….to him my home was in Georgia with all my friends
Words that, to this day, are still burned into my brain.
I didn’t argue, he was stressed that I was flying out, but his wife, his sons, they’d all be there for him during the few days that I was out of town. I knew his time was not close, although it was closer than what I ever dreaded.
During that long winter of 2014, in just 4 short months, I lost 12 people that I considered to be dear to me, from all over. Some in NY who I grew up with, many in Georgia, some in Michigan, some across the Pond in Europe. It seemed like the tide of death was hitting and all I could do was hold on, hold on to those who I loved and cherish the memories of those who had passed.
The trip back home
The trip to our childhood home is more often than not, a fun, exciting time. Looking at life as it was, the places we played, gathering with our childhood friends. All of this can be excitingly fun or depressing, or a mixture of both.
In June, I went home, to the place of my birth, and while I had gone home when my Dad died, I only stayed for a few days. I have never stayed for so long. I got to stay on an AIRBNB Sailboat (Y’all know I’m a water fanatic correct? Lol) for 9 days. A nice 1932 monohull sailboat – with no A/C – and the marina 2 blocks down the road. Of course, I picked a week of 95-100 degrees of sweaty, stifling heat – with no A/C. Did I mention the sailboat didn’t have air conditioning?
I met with childhood friends, took the boat out on a few sunset cruises on Cayuga Lake, which was beautiful and fun. It’s always wonderful to see friends I grew up with, laughing at some of our adventures, stunned at how we viewed them differently. I met with my niece and had some awesome times with her as always. I have amazing nieces and nephews from both of my brothers… ( well, of course, I’m biased, however, they truly are!)
My brother and I walked the old family farm. We looked at the house we were raised in, the old barn, remembering Bessie the cow, the night the weasels got in the hen house, my pony, Frisky. Laughing at some of our antics in maneuvering quicksand. The farm now belongs to Cornell University as a Bird Reserve.
As my brother and I walked the high grasses of our old 45-acre homestead we talked about how life evolved for both of us, it reminded me of our childhood, the good, the bad, the ugly.
David and I visited the family cemetery and then went down the road to the next cemetery. As my brother and I walked the cemetery, listening to Six Mile Creek gurgle and babble, we realized there were a few plots there that looked as though they are still available. They overlook the creek, so restful and peaceful. I made up my mind there and then to get one of those plots for my final resting place when Father brings me Home.
We quietly listened to the creek, the same creek I ice skated on, fished in, swam in, those were very happy times, but is it really home? Just because we are born in one geographical area, is THAT place HOME? Is this place truly home?
Have you left home? Where is HOME for you? Have you gone back? Do you have memories of your childhood home? How did the events that you grew up with make you the amazing person you are today? What are your happy memories? What are the emotions you are ready to let go of? What adventures do you look forward to in your life?
Join me next week as I continue my tale of going home!
Out with the old energy, in with the new.
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The power of Positive perception—what is it, and how does it help your emotional health? Positive perception is a mindset that focuses on optimism and finding value in all experiences. In this article, we will explore positive perception and its role in enhancing emotional health. We will look at how a positive outlook can improve your emotional well-being and how it goes hand in hand with mental and physical well-being. Through practical insights and vibrational mediation techniques, we aim to guide you toward a more fulfilled and balanced life, and we hope this blog helps you achieve that. What is Positive Perception? Positive perception is the intentional focus on life's positives, the ability to see beyond immediate challenges, and the appreciation of the potential for growth and joy in every situation. It's not a natural tendency for some, but fortunately, it is a skill that can be developed to transform your outlook on life and your interactions with the world around you. Positive perceptions approach to life is rooted in the science of positive psychology, which shows that individuals with a positive outlook tend to lead healthier, more satisfying lives. They are better equipped to cope with stress, recover from illness more quickly, and even enjoy more robust social relationships. By recognizing the value in every experience and being able to see the positive aspects of situations that you might typically view as negative, positive perceivers actively enhance your emotional regulation and resilience. Adopting this perspective doesn't mean ignoring life's difficulties; rather, it involves acknowledging challenges while still choosing to focus on opportunities for growth and positivity. Embracing positive perception as a daily practice can lead to profound benefits, laying the foundation for improved emotional health and overall well-being. The Connection Between Positive Perception and Emotional Health The link between positive perception and emotional health is multifaceted and has been well-studied. Positive perception acts as a catalyst for emotional resilience, enabling you to navigate life's ups and downs with greater ease and less stress. It influences how you process emotions, react to challenges, and interact with others, contributing to a healthier emotional state. For example, one study on aging and mental health showed that happiness, laughter, and humor led to better bereavement adjustment and reduced depressive symptoms. This demonstrates that those who maintain a positive outlook exhibit lower levels of depression and anxiety and higher levels of happiness and satisfaction. Real-life examples abound, showing that people who adopt a positive mindset tend to have better stress management capabilities , enhanced mood regulation , and increased resilience against adversity . This powerful relationship underscores the importance of cultivating a positive perception as a key strategy in promoting emotional well-being and achieving a balanced, fulfilled life. The Role of Positive Perception in Emotional Health Positive perception profoundly influences our emotional health by creating an environment where mental , emotional, and physical well-being thrive. It equips individuals with the ability to manage stress effectively, regulate mood swings, and bounce back from setbacks with resilience. Over time, this outlook cultivates a sense of inner peace, happiness, and satisfaction, laying the groundwork for long-term emotional health benefits. By choosing to focus on the positives, you can transform your daily life, making challenges more manageable and its joys more noted. This mindset doesn't just benefit you; it radiates outward, improving relationships and creating a positive impact on your community. Vibrational Mediation: An Aid to Improve Emotional Health Vibrational mediation, a practice that focuses on aligning the body's energy frequencies, offers a novel approach to enhancing emotional health through positive perception. You can directly influence your emotional well-being by attuning to the vibrations that resonate with health, harmony, and positivity. This methodology facilitates a deeper connection between mind, body, and spirit, enabling you to achieve a state of balance and emotional clarity. Through vibrational mediation, you can learn to navigate the complexities of your emotions with grace, using your energy to foster a positive outlook and enhance overall emotional health. Practical Steps to Improve Positive Perception and Emotional Health Practical, daily actions can improve your positive perception and emotional health. Begin by cultivating gratitude, focusing on what you appreciate in your life. Engage in positive affirmations, reinforcing self-belief and confidence. Practice mindfulness, staying present and appreciative of the moment. Incorporate vibrational mediation techniques to align your energy with positive frequencies. Surround yourself with positive influences—people, environments, and media that uplift and inspire. Finally, embrace challenges as opportunities for growth, viewing obstacles through a lens of potential rather than limitation. By integrating these practices into your daily routine, you can enhance your Positive Perception, contributing to a healthier, more balanced emotional state. Positive Perception as a Step to Better Emotional Health Embracing Positive Perception transforms your emotional health, fostering resilience and happiness. You can navigate life's challenges with grace and strength by integrating vibrational mediation and practical positivity practices. Let's commit to this empowering journey, enhancing our well-being and spreading positivity to those around us. As we conclude this exploration, the call echoes—an invitation to explore vibrational mediation to consider its transformative potential in helping you cultivate a positive perception. Reach out to Patti for a Consultation . During the consultation, Patti can provide information about the best service for you during your journey.
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Imagine your mind as a thriving garden. All of your hopeful and positive thoughts plant the seeds of well-being, while the negative ones lurk around as invasive weeds, threatening your mental well-being. Cultivating a positive perception is like the diligent work of a gardener. To keep your mind well, you need to tend the mental garden of your mind with care.
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